Viewing the body of a deceased person is a very personal decision but one that should be fully considered, Rabbi Earl Grollman 2 discussing viewing the body says this is perhaps of greater importance today than ever before seeing is believing.

Proper preparation and, when necessary, restoration helps to modify and remove the marks of violence or the ravages of disease. Preparation, restoration, and the use of cosmetics are not meant to make the dead look alive.

They provide an acceptable image for the recall of the deceased. Viewing is therapeutic for people, regardless of age. The word viewing does not portray all of what takes place when ones view a deceased person. The word viewing seems to imply that one just visually inspects the body; however, viewing involves far more than just that.

It is an experience that involves several senses acting together at a given time, not just sight, but sight coupled with very intense feelings, emotions and behavioural responses. It is important to realise that viewing can initiate emotional responses to grief and may give rise to both positive and negative feelings. While this can be distressing it is important to remember that viewing can be a vital ingredient in the total resolution of grief.

2 Rabbi Earl A. Grollman in his book Concerning Death: A Practical Guide for the Living (Beacon Press, Boston, MA, 1974